In my opinion, this subject seems to be joked about way too much. People always seem to think the victim is the one to blame. The victim should be more careful, or should watch what they wear, or watch how they talk. Because to some people talking or dressing a certain way means they want it or are asking for it. This should not be the case, if someone wears short shorts and a crop top doesn't mean they want it, or looking a certain way doesn't mean they want it. If they change their mind then that should be that, not any "are you sure?" or "come on it will be fun", no means no. There should be no excuse, even under the influence of drugs, you know what your doing, you know when your being turned down. No male or female should still be scared to turn away from their drink, or be scared that if they say one word wrong someone could take it the wrong way. Most of the time, rape victims are made to believe that they are the problem, that because they didn't say no a certain way that means it was okay. If you said no that means no, it was not your fault.
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